What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
Last Updated: 20.06.2025 04:36
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
Do you want to have an XXX chat?
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
If you win, what will you make them do?
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
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73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
What was your biggest culture shock going to Europe?
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
Why are Capri cigarettes so expensive?
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
Why do wives cheat with black guys?
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
When gallery photos are deleted at the same time, why are Google photos also deleted?
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
What are the easiest stores for shoplifting?
52~ What are your hobbies?
The Ice Breaker Questions
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
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70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
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What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
Any that are a turn off?
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
How old are you? Male or Female?
39~ What are your love languages?
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
29- How superstitious are you?
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
Have you ever? Care to Share?
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
Please share Did you stop?
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
Do you think this brought you closer together?
Nothing too Serious
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
Any that are a turn off?
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
What is your favorite position? Why?
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
Family Relation Age Play
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
Would you read them together?
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
*** Questions About Me ***
If yes, what?
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
62~ Have you used adult toys?
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
*** Random Questions ***